Three Ways for Attacking Teen Anger

Knowledge is power, and understanding is essential to parenting. So many youth today allow anger to control their actions, causing regrettable behavior. As a parent, we want our children to make as few mistakes as is necessary, but we must first understand.

Rest easy, if you happen to have an angry teen, your teen is not abnormal. The unfortunate reality is that many Americans are victims to anger, and many of us have no idea of how to control it. The emotion anger is not necessarily the threatening factor, our concern rests in the actions associated with anger when it grows out of control. According to John M. Grohol with Psych Central, teenage anger arises from fear. Adolescents do have quite a bit to fear: they are experiencing new changes, they have the pressure of leaving home and their comfort zone, and school and peer pressures to name a few. As a parent, knowing that this stage in your youth’s life is normal, you are better equipped to handle the tough situations.

Inherently, any human being who is under pressure will react, though reactions may vary depending on the individual. Just as with depression, which can be a cause of anger, anger can harm your youth if not addressed appropriately.

Read the three ways to attack teen anger.

-Sierra Langh, Tampa Teen Issues Examiner

Sexting and Teens

There is no question that the age of high-tech devices have made keeping connected better than ever before. FaceBook, cell phones, MySpace, and other social networking has not only created positive interactions between teens but as time goes by society is learning of the negatives as well.

Sexting has become one of the biggest issues in a teens life. Pressures from boyfriends, social groups, and wanting to "fit in", teens send suggestive texts or pictures to others. Even when teens are told the consequences of sexting, it continues to occur.

Read about this alarming trend here. In this article it shares one teen's story and how she tried to warn others by appearing on a Cinncinnati television station to tell her story. Two months later she committed suicide.

The devastating affects on a teen who is ostracised due to sexting is heart breaking. One decision in a moment of pressure or "fun" can ruin a teen's life forever.

Teen Depression

Sue Scheff: Teen Depression

As I saw on the news last night, experts are saying that parents with children between the ages of 12-18 should have them screened for depression. It is not about promoting medication, it is about helping to understand if there are areas in their lives that can be causing stress and anxiety that can leave to making negative choices such has experimenting with substance abuse, hanging with a less than desirable peer group, feelings of low self worth, etc. Like adults, children can be prone to depression and stress and not mature enough to understand these feelings. With this, acting out in a negative way can follow. Take time to learn more.

Source: USA Today

Tools4Teens Summer Camp

This program will cover critical topics outlined in the Tools 4 Teens book. The focus will be on character and life skill development set on a Godly foundation.

Students will scrapbook throughout the duration of the program. This creative element will encourage self-awareness and positive goal setting. Our summer camp program can hold six students.

This program includes

• Eight hours of instruction, M-Th. 10am-noon, July, 2009
• On-site staff photographer
• Approximately 14-16 personal photographs per student for use in scrapbooks.
• All scrapbooking supplies, including 8 X 8 scrapbook.
• Each student will receive a customized Tools 4 Teens book using photographs taken by our staff photographer.

<< click here to request info on the Summer Camp Program >>

A Troubled Teen's Success Story

With all the troubled teen stories floating around it's good to hear the success stories too. Here's one that will make you smile (click on the link below to read entire article):

WEST PALM BEACH, FL -- Veronica Limia wanted her day in court. Not too many years ago, Palm Beach County judge sentenced her for burglary and grand larceny.

Veronica Limia, 6 years ago: "I don't know. Maybe it was attention seeking. If I wasn't going to be good, I was going to be bad. And I was going to be the best at it."

Bad is what got Veronica Limia off the softball team, running with a gang, breaking and entering and into the maximum security Florida Institute for Girls for 18-months. Along the way, she met Juvenile Court Judge Ron Alvarez.

Judge Ron Alvarez: "As I tell my kids when I send them into a program, which I don't like to do, make the best out of it. Get the most out of it that you possibly can. You've got the rest of your life ahead of you."

-"Former troubled teen returns to seek justice", reported by: Chandra Bill, wptv.com

Adults Face Fears about CyberBullying

Jennifer Pittman wrote an article in The Santa Cruz Sentinental about adults coming face to face with the issue of teen cyberbullying.

She writes:

SANTA CRUZ -- Adults who ignore the unfamiliar and sometimes daunting world of the Internet often fail to offer children and youth much needed guidance about safe and appropriate online activities, according to experts who spoke Friday at the 12th annual Jon Nadherny/Calciano Memorial Youth Symposium.

"Kids are growing up inside the Internet," said Frank Farley, professor at Temple University and former president of the American Psychological Association.

Farley, a keynote speaker for "Cyberpsychology: The Internet and Youth in the New Millennium," held at the Cocoanut Grove in Santa Cruz, calls himself "a digital immigrant" who struggles to understand the Internet world of his own two teens.

"They're not consumers of it; they live there," Farley said.

Read entire article

Abuse Among Teens

The Houston Chronicle wrote a timely article about abuse among teens in our society.

Abuse is widely reported so teens are constantly hearing about abuse among famous teen actors.

The article begins:

Celebrity watchers were astounded when baby-faced, 19-year-old pop star Chris Brown was arrested last month — for beating and threatening his equally photogenic and appealing girlfriend, the 20-year-old, Grammy-winning Rihanna.

The couple was so young, seemed so madly in love. This ugly thing hardly seemed possible.

But youth, what seems to be love and a veneer of normalcy actually are typical characteristics of much relationship violence. Parents need to grab this chance to discuss such abuse with their own teens. Read more.