Expecations and Your Teen

With the presidential inauguration this week, most news stations are focused on the security, the performers, and of course, the president-elect Obama.

There is much talk about what Obama wants to do, what he promised to do, and what will actually happen. The whole nation has expectations about what Obama will do. Some will be thrilled, some will be disappointed. That's the nature of expecations.

People tend to have expectations of how things will happen, no matter the circumstance. It happens in politics and it happens at home.

Well meaning parents put pressure on their teen to act or be a certain way. Most of these parents truly do want what is best for their teen.

Teens rebel against expectations they do not feel they can meet and look to peers for support. Parents and teens stop talking and a divide between them grows.

Allowing teens to be who God made them to be will go a long way in helping bridge the gap. Accepting who they are and being open and honest will not only show support for your teen but will improve communication.

The bottom line is... your teen needs you. Not the you that expects them to be what you want them to be, but the you that listens and supports what THEY want to be and do.