Unfortunately, divorce has become a topic that is woven into every aspect of society. If someone in your family has not been divorced, a friend or coworker has.
Children and teens deal with all kinds of emotions toward each parent as seen by the Question and Answer below:
Q. My parents are going through a divorce. I have a lot of anger toward my dad because he packed up and left us while Mom and I were out of town. Also, it’s pretty obvious he has a girlfriend. He won’t answer any of my calls or take responsibility for what he’s done.-www.boston.com
I’m also angry with my mother because she’s constantly bringing up Dad every five minutes and it’s frustrating. I want to get through this, but Mom won’t let go. I understand it’s hard for her, but she doesn’t even try.
I’m 17 years old and have enough problems to deal with. How can I get past this whole ordeal, forgive my dad, help my mom, and make her realize she shouldn’t be talking to me about her problems?
A. It is normal for you to be angry and upset. Your father is behaving selfishly, and your mother is leaning on you for emotional support. It will help if you can talk to someone about your situation, perhaps your school counselor, a favorite teacher, an adult relative, or the parent of a friend.
In time, you will forgive your father because you sound smart enough to understand that it will help you move forward. You also can tell your mother that you know she is hurting and ask her to please vent to a professional. It would be better for both of you.
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